IVF by Ela Brave and Iván Brave

IVF by Ela Brave and Iván Brave

“This is your sperm cell,” the nurse practitioner says. He draws an oval with a squiggly line on the white crunchy paper of the medical exam table. Meanwhile I’m annoyed and feeling like a dumb lab rat.

Courtesy by Kim Magowan and Michelle Ross

Courtesy by Kim Magowan and Michelle Ross

At the checkout line, I wave ahead a woman who clutches nothing but a bottle of shampoo. She doesn’t say thank you, but she does smile gratefully, so I’m not too bothered by the omission. But then she and the elderly cashier get to chatting. About courtesy, of all things.